Let reporters opt into fast path in RunContext::assertionStarting

The fast path allows `RunContext` to skip disabling output redirect,
and notifying the reporters, turning `RunContext::notifyAssertionStarted`
into a no-op. This improves the overall performance of assertion handling
significantly, and also prepares ground for future changes around
assertion handling and thread safety.

For simple 10M assertion run, this improves the running time by ~30%
in Debug build and ~40% in Release build.

For backwards-compatibility reasons, the fast path is disabled
by default. However, none of the first party reporters use the
`assertionStarting` event, so all first party reporters are opted-in.

tests/SelfTest/TestRegistrations.cpp

@@ -54,6 +54,7 @@ public:
     ValidatingTestListener(Catch::IConfig const* config) :
         EventListenerBase(config) {
         m_preferences.shouldReportAllAssertions = true;
+        m_preferences.shouldReportAllAssertionStarts = true;
     }
 
     void testRunStarting( Catch::TestRunInfo const& ) override {